We all have derailers, those sneaky, unconscious, maladaptive habits learned early in life.
When many of us were younger, we might have discovered that avoiding conflict was the best way to deal with our parents. We might have found that perfectionism scored high marks in school. These learned behaviors might have served us well at the time. But now, those same habits skew our vision and inhibit individual progress.
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